Monday, April 27, 2009

Saying the Four Things

Four simple phrases — "Please forgive me," "I forgive you," "Thank you," and "I love you" — carry enormous power. In many ways, they contain the most powerful words in our language. These four phrases provide us with a clear path to emotional wellness; they guide us through the thickets of interpersonal difficulties to a conscious way of living that is full of integrity and grace. 

In The Four Things That Matter Most,  teaches us how to practice these life-affirming words in our day-to-day lives. Too often we assume that the people we love really know we love them. Its reveals the value of stating the obvious and provides insights into how we burden ourselves by hanging on to old grudges unconsciously and unnecessarily. Its will shows us how to avoid living with those awkward silences and uncomfortable issues that distance us from the people we love and erode our sense of well-being and joy. His insights and stories help us to forgive, appreciate, love, and celebrate one another more fully. 

The inspiring stories in The Four Things That Matter Most demonstrate the usefulness of the Four Things in a wide range of life situations. They also show that a degree of emotional healing is always possible and that we can experience a sense of wholeness even in the wake of family strife, personal tragedy, divorce, or in the face of death. With practical wisdom and spiritual punch, The Four Things That Matter Most gives us the language and guidance to honor and experience what really matters most in our lives every day.


Please forgive me.
I forgive you.
Thank you.
I love you. 

These four simple statements are powerful tools for improving your relationships and your life. 

三个字


爱情 不是一道选择题。
我知道,那个时候你就已经做了决定。
你心里永远都有着一个相信。
而我的相信,就是支持着你的相信。
因为,我心里有三个字,不能告诉你…
如果没有你和他的约定
我的爱会不会有一种权利
成为你的行李
陪着你去旅行
无论是北极还是雨林
我还守着我和他的约定
最後幸福会写下一份证明
就算没有日期
就算还会伤心
我仍相信生命的奇迹
不该再用我的爱困住你
不该再让你眼中有泪滴
好无力 去找寻
那三个字的替代句
也许我们从此不再相遇
永远记得你微笑的眼睛
别伤心 你放心
我知道三个字的意义
如果有一天 命运让我们再次相遇
而你的答案还缺少一个回应
或许你不知道
其实我也在等待 另一个奇迹
我还守着我和他的约定
最後幸福会写下一份证明
就算没有日期
就算还会伤心
我仍相信生命的奇迹
不该再用我的爱困住你
不该再让你眼中有泪滴
好无力 去找寻
那三个字的替代句
也许我们从此不再相遇
永远记得你微笑的眼睛
别伤心 你放心
我知道三个字的意义
别伤心 你放心
我知道三个字的意义
当你笑着找到 你的相信
我会将这三个字 化作你的姓名
永远的 放在心里…… 

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Rain...


At last, it rain and it rain heavily... it happen today, 2 something in the morning... what i have been waiting for the past few day of hot temperature.... Really feel the rain.. and feel want to rush out to the rain but couldn't because of final is coming.. scared caught cold and sick.. haha.. 

Saturday, April 18, 2009

HOT HOT HOT...


I'm surfuring the hot weather in kampar... can anyone help... almost cooked already myself.. want to study, and do other stuff also no mood, even sleep also can due to the hot weather in kampar. 

あつい ! あつい !  あつい !

あめ てんき!!! あめ てんき!!!! あめ てんき!!!!

Birthdays...


Birthday cakes... black and white
Judy Happy birthday party  at her house...  judy get  happy what we plan.. she get surprise when we all burst into her room...  after what we done, she felt touch what we have done.. even more ask her room mate why don't tell  her got this surprise.. her room mate say she also don't know got surprise plan... if got also pretend don't  know...
First the black cake enter her room and sang the english birthday song... then the white cake enter with singing chinese version....
Photo taking section..

 
Judy with friends..
Judy with housemate..
After cutting cakes and eat... then we change to another place to continue the celebration... which is boombox (pub).  And that time another cake is prepare which is the boombox give to her as her birthday party at there. At the sure have beer already.. 4 bucket package.. 1 bucket 6 bottle... At there force to dance too.. haiz... don't know how to dance still have to dance because being force by birthday girl... Then a friend bet with someone where if she drink the beer until where we pointed... the friend have to strip his shirt and dance..
Too shy..

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Mini cinema in westlake house 1539....

This happen because my room mate have a projector which is use for the buddhise society in utar have a event. After their rehearsal, my room mate took it come home.. because left at heritage hall also no use.. so he took it back....

Sound system for the mini cinema..

Source to play movie...

The Projector...

The screen...

Beside become mini cinema.. my housemate used it to play games... ex: counter strike and dota...sweat....

Counter Strike( sniper )

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Failure...

After trying to do the step, in all the sudden it drop to the start..... have to start from basics.... Why this kind of step very hard to step on..... why? No matter how hard it takes and how long it takes, the result also will be same have start over again from the beginning....
Sometimes is hard to accept this kind failure because this failure repeat and repeat again.... not even once success.....why......????
But sometime from failure, will gain experinces.... and next time will be more carefull and give more on next time to gain success...